Category Archives: Marriage Advice

Happy Marriage Part2

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Marriage is like work-out you need to do it everyday to see results.

Having a spouse is a biggest blessing that you can received from God that is why you have to take care of spouse the way that you take care of yourself and your children.

Here are some suggestion to keep your marriage happy and alive.

-Attitude speaks more

Good attitude makes a big difference you should not over power your pride remember your spouse is your partner in life you are a team in this journey by raising your children and having a good wonderful journey as a married couple.

 

-Water your plant the same with marriage

When you plant you need to water the plant so that it will grow. The same with marriage make effort to grow your marriage and help each other to grow as a better person and a better partner.

 

-Love is a decision but not a feeling

Real love is based on a couple’s vows of commitment for better or for worse. When it feels good and when it does not but be there for each other side.

 

– Crisis in married life is not the end of the journey

There are a lot of struggles to undergo in married life there will be pain and sorrow along the way but however it should not be the basis of your married life to end. Nonetheless strive harder to solve problems wholeheartedly remember you are a team in married life.

Happy Marriage Part1

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Happy pill your happy pill is your wife/husband it is like your daily of dose of vitamins whenever you see your spouse he/she makes you happy. There is someone out there who motivates you every now and then.

Marriage is like work-out you need to do it everyday to see results.

Having a spouse is a biggest blessing that you can received from God that is why you have to take care of spouse the way that you take care of yourself and your children.

 

Here are some suggestion to keep your marriage happy and alive.

-Happiness is an inside job

In married life it is not always as sweet as a cupcake sometimes it can be bitter as a shot of espresso. However successful couple maintains a happy outlook in their marriage it is important to shun negativity and embrace the positive vibes in marriage.

-Support each other

Boiling point we all have boiling point in our lives things get rough and hard as a rock but remember your vow that you promise for each other. Time heals everything. Be patient and open-minded.

-Accept change

Problems that married couple vary different problem different approach if married couple do the same thing all over. They expect the same result it is important to see changes in your married life.

Build Yourself To Be A Wife/Husband Material Part 2

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Genisis 2:18

18 The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”
– Discover your capabilities earn a degree, enroll a skills through it you will have a bright future that awaits you and your future family.

– Read Godly books and read Bible through you will know how it love should be and how you can take good care to your future family

– Do not go for looks, pretty face,extravagant lifestyle, Pray for someone who can be with you through thick and thin who will not give up in hard times

– Have a career have something that you enjoy the most and turn it to a business a strong woman should be learn by a lady

– Ask guidance to God especially if you have a relationship right now and you feel like things is not going okay ask God if she is meant to be lead your relationship with a strong foundation and hopefully to marriage.

– Be specific to the qualities of the woman that you have been looking for. Someone who have Jesus in their lives.

Build Yourself To Be A Wife/Husband Material Part 1

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We wonder why we have some failed relationships at some point it affects us whether we do not want to be in a relationship anymore or maybe you do not want to fall in-love again because of too much heartache that you experienced before. The more you seek to it the more discouragement that you will encounter.

How many times you hear yourself that you do not want to be in a relationship anymore?

How many times did you tell yourself that you will never gonna love again?

How many times did you tell your self that true love does not exist anymore?

1 time, 2 time, 3 time, or maybe a thousand time?

Love is a decision and true love exist and true love waits.

Before you start a relationship with men/women ask yourself first?

Am I worthy for his/her love to me?

Am I good boyfriend/girlfriend to be?

We do not enter a relationship for a short- easily ended relationship or or past time?

We should enter a relationship because we are seeking a good husband/wife to our future children.

Instead of complaining because you waited too much and no one come up maybe this is the start to build yourself to be a better wife/husband.

Quality Time In Marriage Part 2

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Marriage is to be honored by all, and husbands and wives must be faithful to each other. God will judge those who are immoral and those who commit adultery. – Hebrews 13:4 (GNTD

Honor your spouse they are your confident, team-mate, and adviser.

Spend more time with them not just time but quality time. Ask about each others whereabouts, what are the things that they wanna do in the future? Or ask some next destination trip with your family. There are a lot of ways to spend more time with them.

Try these things to have more quality time with your wife:

1.Walk together in the park, you can even take the kids and buy some street food. As you walk together you will see a lot of beautiful scenery.

  1. Turn on the radio and listen to your favorite music(my wife and kids love this one each evening)
  2. Go for a bike with your wife discover different roads to go through with it you can spend living healthier together plus a chance for your to catch up on each others whereabouts.
  3. Picnic is not limited in outdoors alone you can also do it in the comfort of your living room. Cook grilled food for them as you feel the camping vibe. You start off by helping each other in setting up.
  4. Do not forget to say I LOVE YOU. It acts as a reminder for your endless love for each other.

Spending quality time for your spouse and kids need not to be expensive. Honor them and Thank God for giving them to you.

Quality Time In Marriage Part 1

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When we were young we were taught by our parents to manage our time wisely w just like how a wise men runs his business. Everything should be spent productively. Every penny counts and every business deal is a must.

The same with marriage it is not all about giving expensive things to your love ones it is not about giving them all the luxury gadgets in your house or just dropping by food without your presence while enjoying it. Marriage is not all about materials and luxury, it is more on time well spent together, exchanging I love you and I miss you, complementing each other strengths, and supporting and giving a hug during tough times.

Sure thing that work can be demanding especially when you are pot for promotion we need a job to send the kids to school, to pay the bills, to enjoy leisure at times. However too much can work can affect your married life and quality time with your family.

Remember you marry your wife not your job. At the end of the day you work to provide their needs so better spend more quality time with them.

A family that eats together makes a happy family be there when your wife is busy preparing your favorite dinner. Be there when your son is ready to show how his skills hone up in school, be there when your child wants to shows his exam papers because he passed all the subjects.

Be there with them and your because they need you and your TIME.

Married Life: Sail the boat with God Part 2

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When we decided to follow God and his teachings to us every married couple can surpass all the trials that they will go through. It is much easier for them to hold on to God’s promises knowing that tey have a strong foundation in their faith.

Is it amazing?

How God loves and protect us all especially in marriage. When time comes when your spouse is weak and have trouble in herself/himself just go and bring him to God and ask for guidance and wisdom because God’s comfort is the most relaxing and healing feeling to feel.

Jeremiah 31:3, where the Lord appeared saying “I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.” Or John 15:19, “As the Father has loved Me [Jesus] so have I loved you,”

When you sail the boat think about how many waves that you have to sail before you reach your destination. Think about how many storms that you have to go through. Stick together as a couple and sail with God the best wheel and anchor in married life.

Married Life: Sail the boat with God Part 1

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Over a couple of years we are curious enough on who will the person that we will end up to? Who will sail the boat with us? Who will be our partner in life? Who will be our best-friend? Who will be our companion?

It was a long journey for others to find their one true love maybe they spent a couple of years trying to seek for it and ended up in a failed relationship. Maybe they spent a number years to finally wait the person that is God has given to them.

When that day comes you will be the happiest person on earth because you finally meet the love of your life. The partner, husband, and husband/wife that you have been praying for.

Is it important that he/she loves God than you as his/her spouse?

Jesus tells us that the first and greatest commandment is that we love God with all our heart, soul, mind and strength. (Mark 12:29-30).
The most important thing is that your spouse loves Jesus because when he/she does everything falls into place this is the reminder that he is a child of God.

Choose Love and Stay In-love Part 2

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“Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” – Ecclesiastes 4:12

Marriage is like a roller coaster ride you can go up and eventually down it is cycle where there are many stop-over . It requires deep understanding and strong faith in God. Marriage is not easy there are factors that affects it and there are reasons to fight for it. Marriage is between the union of two individual who decided to be with accordance of the will of God. Together the married couple has a strong bundle; the wife, the husband, and the presence of God through this their life together will have a strong foundation and it cannot be broken nor destroyed.

 

“Be completely humble and gentle; Be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the spirit through the bond of peace.”- Ephesians 4:2-3

 

Choose to be humble because humility always wins from deep understanding to each others flaws to appreciating each others strengths. Be patient with your spouse there will be times that you will feel that he/she is not doing any actions to correct a certain issues between your marriage maybe you just have to be patient enough as your spouse is still building and analyzing on how he/she will be able to address certain issues that you are facing as a couple the most important thing is that you give each other ties to grow, learn, and change for the better. This verse reminds us that be patient with each others, make time to hear each other side, and then be humble always through it you will be able to have less arguments since you know how to handle each other.

 

 

 

Choose Love and Stay In-love Part 1

 

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“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”- 1 Peter 4:8

If there is a one thing that you should never give up its marriage.

People change in a lot of ways, your husband may change at some point in time, he may change his favorite color, he may change his favorite dish, he may change his favorite perfume, and at some point his love for may grow or may shrink.There will be times that your Friday night date may become lesser due to the demands of work and so much more demands in other aspect in life.

There will be times that you will feel sad and lonely you need someone’s hand and arms to hold you tight but then your partner can be naive at some times due to tiredness,lack of desire and problems that he/she keeps on thinking. At some in point in time you will loss the burning passion of your marriage, sometimes you forget the reason behind the butterflies in your stomach, you forget the smile to your face when you see your wedding pictures, sometimes the problems piles up along the way.

But choose Love because it a decision this verse reminds us how powerful the Love of God to us and how it can cover a number of sins especially in marriage.