There is no perfect marriage but a wife and a husband can be a better partner by trying the best to make their relationship stronger, healthier and happier. These are the problems a marriage possibly exist and these are also the things you need to do to overcome them:
Telling Your Friends About Your Problems
Friends can be your crying shoulder when things go wrong. You can ask for advice but actually you do not have to tell all the details of your problem to a point that your friends will hate your spouse. Mostly women do this, if there is a problem in their marriage, they usually go to their friends but telling only the one side of the story. You should avoid that because it will not fix the problem, it will make the problem worse. Sometimes, you do not actually ask for advice, you just want to hear someone agreeing you.
Expecting Him to Change
Do not expect him to change the way you want it to be. Changing him to be your ideal husband is not good. In the first place,you marry him because you accept who he is and you love just the way he is. He is not a robot that you can program a quality that you want in him as your husband. Do not expect him to change but help him to be a better person.
Connecting With Your Spouse
Connection is very important in marriage and it should be present everyday of your life. Without connection, it is very impossible to move forward as well as achieving your plans in the future together. You need to have a constant communication especially about what is going on to your individual life and you should not sleep or end your day without talking anything you want to say. Others forget to be honest and transparent to their spouse, worse is, others forget to ask help to their spouse especially when problems arise. You need to remember that you are not only in a relationship, you are also in a partnership forever.
Once you are committed to someone especially in marriage, being selfish is a no no. This time, you should not think for your own benefit but you should also consider your spouse. Before making a decision, you should ask or consult your spouse before giving your final answer. Selflessness is a key for an effective and happy marriage life. Love is never selfish.