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Love or Lust? Why did you stay in your relationship? Is it because of love or lust? Part1


When you ask the definition of love to other people, you will get a divergent answer. Love has various meanings to different people. Love for your family means you sacrifice working overseas to give them a comfortable living. Love for your dogs means you make sure that they are well-nourished by giving them food, building shelter, and attending to their daily medication. Loving someone which everyone wants to feel; to give love and be loved.

According to Wikipedia Love is defined as a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes that ranges from interpersonal affection. Another definition of love is from a psychological point of view. Love is one of the most profound emotions known to human beings. There are many kinds of love, but most people seek its expression in a romantic relationship with a compatible partner. However, Merriam-Webster dictionary also has its fair-share definition of love as a feeling of strong or constant affection for a person, an attraction that includes sexual desire: the strong affection felt by people who have a romantic relationship. A strong relationship needs a daily dose of respect, love, and understanding.

Did you stay in your relationship for love or lust?

Lust is different from love. Wikipedia defines Lust as an emotion or feeling of intense desire in the body. Lust can take any form, such as, the lust for sex, the lust for expensive objects (extravagance), or the lust for power. However, Merriam-Webster dictionary defined lust as a strong feeling of sexual desire: a strong desire for something.

1 Thessalonians 4:7-8, “God has called us to be holy, not to live impure lives. Anyone who refuses to live by these rules is not disobeying human rules but is rejecting God, who gives his Holy Spirit to you.” If lust has not yet gripped your heart and mind, ready yourself through a life lived above reproach to combat the temptations of lust. If you currently struggle with lust, it is time to come clean before God and ask for His intervention in your life, so that holiness can be a mark of your life as well.

After many years of successful relationships in my own life, my mission is to pass on the blessings I’ve received to the many people seeking help in their own lives. I not only help to restore broken marriages, but also friendships, relationships, families etc. I am a faith-based marriage and relationship coach with a mission: To build stronger marriages through faith; to deepen the spirituality of the individual and the couple by accepting an open minded cornerstone of the marriage; to strengthen the communication, commitment, and respect within a marriage through a focus on gratitude, and love.